Simple cremation

One of the many questions we get asked is ‘how long does cremation take?’ Luckily, it’s easy to answer. With over 30 years of experience behind us helping to provide exemplary funeral care to families across the UK, we’ve learned a thing or two about what happens at a cremation.

How long do cremations take?

Cremations typically take between 1-3 hours, depending on factors like coffin material, size of the deceased, and the temperature of the cremator. Following this, a cooling process takes an additional 1-2 hours. The service duration may also vary based on whether the cremation is unattended or attended.

To help you understand the process better, here’s a step-by-step guide to what you can expect, from start to finish, from a cremation funeral.

How long is an attended cremation service?

Cremation services usually last between 8 minutes and an hour, depending on what the family has chosen. With a Distinct Cremations attended cremation, there is the option to have an 30 or 60 minute service.

If you’re attending a cremation, you should aim to arrive at the chapel around 10 to 20 minutes before the funeral is due to start. For many, especially those with larger families and social circles, a funeral can be akin to a reunion. Arriving early allows people to greet each other before the deceased’s funeral procession arrives.

Entering the crematorium

When the deceased and their family arrive, they’ll lead the entry into the crematorium. When they’re ready, entry to the chapel will begin. At a traditional cremation, the service leader and the deceased’s pallbearers will carry the coffin, followed by the immediate family, then the attending mourners. The coffin will be placed on a raised platform at the head of the congregation, ready for the service, while the attendees take their seats. This process will take anywhere from 2 minutes to 10 minutes depending on how many attendees are present at the funeral.

However, with the less traditional, more simple cremations that Distinct Cremation specialise in, this process differs somewhat – for example, direct cremations have no service and are unattended. While with our attended cremation there is no procession or pallbearers who lead the coffin. Rather, the coffin will already be resting at the head of the chapel before any mourners arrive.

The cremation service

The service will usually open with a few words from the service leader, usually a family member or celebrant. During the service people may stand to read a few words about the deceased, share stories of their experiences together or read poetry in their honour. Singing is also common during a funeral service, either traditional funeral hymns or special funeral music chosen by the family or the deceased.

With Distinct Cremations, the time of the service differs depending on what you choose. Here are the three options:

Ending the service

Before the service ends, the service leader will say a few more words and one of the chapel attendants will draw curtains around the coffin as a final piece of music plays. At this point you’ll be asked to leave the chapel, behind the service leader and the close family of the deceased.

Outside the chapel, the close family of the deceased will usually form a receiving line, allowing attendees to offer their condolences directly to the family. If there’s a wake held after the funeral, people will usually make their way straight to the venue after briefly speaking to other guests outside the chapel.

After the service

Once the funeral service has ended, families can choose to have a wake or a celebration of life at a venue and time of their choice. Some people like to have this as soon as the funeral service ends, while others may choose a different date.

A wake or celebration of life can be as short or as long as you like. You may want to rent a room at a pub for a couple of hours, or you may like to host people at your house for the whole day and long into the evening. The choice is completely yours and your family's.

How long after a funeral is the body cremated?

Once all of the deceased’s mourners have left the chapel, the chapel attendants will begin preparations for the cremation process. The coffin will be carefully removed from its viewing platform and taken through to the crematorium’s cremator room.

The body will be cremated shortly after the funeral service has taken place. The only exception to this would be if there was an equipment failure or if the funeral service took place late in the day. If this is the case, the body will cremated the following morning.

What happens to the ashes after the cremation?

Readying the ashes

When the cremator has finished, crematorium assistants will remove all ashes, fragments and metals left behind into a container. During the cremation process, some unburnt remains are completely normal, like large bone fragments. These are all gathered up and taken to a specialised machine within the crematorium to be turned to the powder-like ashes we’re more familiar with.

After this the initial container is sorted through to remove any metals that weren’t able to be burnt, such as nails and screws from the coffin.

Once all of the metals have been removed, the remaining ashes and fragments are placed into a specialised ash processing machine which grinds everything to a fine sand-like consistency. While in the care of the crematorium staff, the coffin of the deceased will receive a unique badge. Their details will be checked every step of the way, guaranteeing that the ashes you receive are indeed those of your loved one.

When the ashes are ready, they’re placed into a simple urn, clearly labelled, and placed in waiting, ready to be collected.

How long after the cremation can the ashes be collected?

Ashes

With Distinct Cremations, we will hand deliver the ashes to you within 14 days of the cremation. They can also be scattered in our garden of remembrance on your behalf if that's what you'd prefer. If you’ve chosen to have the deceased’s ashes returned to you following the cremation, you’ll be contacted as soon as they’re ready.

If you're using another funeral provider, depending on what you’ve agreed prior to the funeral, you can either collect the ashes yourself from the crematorium or funeral directors or have them delivered to you at home. Alternatively, you can ask the crematorium to scatter the deceased’s ashes on your behalf if they have the facilities to do so.

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Very helpful with difficult decisions. No pressure sales as with other funeral services I approached. Also very good price in comparison with others.
Anonymous, on Feefo 19 Mar 2025
From my first interaction requesting a guide to my conversation with Sophie, I cannot fault the service I've received. All my questions have been answered in a way that I can understand what I am being offered and what I have asked for. All processes and procedures have been explained and I have been given ample time to research other possible companies and I haven't felt pressurised or been given the 'hard sale'. On the service i have received so far I would highly recommend them to family and friends
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Bought a policy online which was quick and simple to do and then received a courtesy call from Distinct Cremations to make sure that I was happy with my purchase. Very professional.
Debbie Burchell, on Feefo 8 Mar 2025
I had no idea where to go when my mum passed away. We had discussed that she wanted to be cremated, but that was it. My partner saw Distinct Cremations on our local Crematorium website, as they work with them. I didn't want loads of fuss, or to go into an office. Just a lovely personal service. Distinct Cremations went above and beyond in every area. I picked my options on the website, nice and simple, to get an idea of my quote. Then had a lovely discussion on the phone with Dan. We talked about all the options I wanted and he was so thougthful, sincere and genuinely supportive, I was really nicely surprised. It was really simple to put the order through and to pay for. Since then I have had a singluar, regular contact called Grace who looked after me every step of the way. The professionalism and compassion of the staff at Distinct Cremations is second to none. I was informed at every step with what was going to happen. They regularly checked in with me, to make sure I was doing ok. The service and celebrant Carol Porter was incredible. Everything happened exactly as planned. I couldn't have wanted anything better. The ashes were delivered to me at home, I had the standard box for them to be delivered in. The gentleman who delivered them was really kind and compassionate also. They came in a really nice blue box. Thank you for making one of the worst times of my life as easy as it could have been. I would highly recommend Distinct Cremations to everyone. I would definitely use them again myself.
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I purchased a cremation plan for my wife and myself. It was very easy to do and so far everything is fine. Just hope I don"t need to use it for a while. Bob
Yvette Glover, on Feefo 7 Mar 2025
I am so grateful to the two people who looked after me during the process of organising the cremation. They were really caring and nothing seemed too much trouble. A huge thank you to Daniel and especially Maxine.
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