45 funeral music ideas

Music plays an important role in funerals, helping to express the emotions and memories tied to a loved one’s life. Choosing the right music for the funeral entrance or during the service can create a meaningful atmosphere, offering comfort and a sense of connection.

Are you struggling to figure out what songs you want played at your funeral or the funeral of a loved one? Take some inspiration from our list below. We have classical funeral music ideas, modern, uplifting songs and much more.

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What music do they play at funerals?

Funeral music has traditionally been seen as hymns and classical overtures. Barber's Adagio for Strings is one of the most popular, as is the classic hymn Abide with Me.

But in recent times, more contemporary music has risen sharply in popularity and now there is no norm with regards to funeral music, especially as people opt for more intimate, personal and simple funerals or direct cremations.

Anything from Led Zeppelin to Britney Spears. Elvis Presley to Beyonce could be the perfect music for a funeral. The choice is completely yours and your family's.

Most popular funeral music in the UK

For anyone who's been to a funeral, whether it's a burial or cremation, you're likely to know or have heard some of the songs on the list. Many of us share our favourites and many of us have similar songs we'd like to have played at our funeral.

Here at Distinct Cremations, we are part of the Westerleigh Group who own 41 crematoriums across the UK and cater for over 74,000 families a year.

We've looked at the frequently requested music in our records to determine the most popular funeral songs up and down the UK:

Somewhere Over The Rainbow - Eva Cassidy
One of the most famous songs of all time, Eva Cassidy's version is maybe the most loved and is the perfect funeral song
Time To Say Goodbye – Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman
Bocelli and Brightman's Time to Say Goodbye has been one of the most popular funeral songs since it was recorded in 1995
A Day Without Rain - Enya
A Day Without Rain is synonymous with the end of life, and was played over much of the radio and television coverage of the 9/11 attacks
A Morning At (In) Cornwall - James Last
This beautiful flute composition perfectly portrays a morning in Cornwall and is a mainstay at funerals in the Cornish community
Wind Beneath My Wings- Bette Midler
Like Time to Say Goodbye, Bette Midler's Wind Beneath My Wings has been a fixture at funerals across the world since its release in 1982
Supermarket Flowers - Ed Sheeran
Sheeran's 2017 song about his late grandmother is a touching number and also the most recent song on this list
Fields of Gold - Eva Cassidy
Eva Cassidy's second feature in this top 10, her beautiful cadence and tempo make her music a perfect choice for a funeral
Nimrod - Elgar
Nimrod is a classic downbeat composition that is always played at the Cenotaph in London on Remembrance Day
You'll Never Walk Alone - Gerry & The Pacemakers
You'll Never Walk Alone is played at every single game at Anfield before kick off, and is the perfect funeral song for Liverpool FC supporters
What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
Half uplifting, half tearjerker, Louis Amstrong's 1967 megahit is a pop standard and a perfect accompaniment for any funeral

Popular choices from our crematorium team

"We see personally how profound an impact music can have on the grieving process. Songs have a unique ability to provide solace and comfort to grieving families during their most challenging moments.

What a Wonderful World' by Louis Armstrong and 'Time to Say Goodbye' by Andrea Bocelli are timeless choices, while 'Supermarket Flowers' by Ed Sheeran and 'Wind Beneath My Wings' by Bette Midler also hold a special place in people's hearts, as they beautifully capture the essence of love and loss.

As well as these popular choices, there are regional songs that hold special meaning. At Borders Crematorium in the south of Scotland, we receive a lot of requests for Highland Cathedral played by a pipe band. It's a song that really tugs on the heartstrings, especially in Scotland, and it's remarkable to witness how every single piece of music can offer a sense of closure and healing in their own way to those bidding farewell to their loved ones."

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Classical music for funerals

Classical music is probably considered the norm at funerals, and with hundreds of years worth of music to choose from, the music library is vast.

There's little that can move us emotionally quite the way that classical music can. Whether we're looking for something gentle for the funeral entrance music, or a little more upbeat, classical is the perfect musical accompaniment for whether you choose a traditional funeral, or as the tribute during a just cremation.

Jerusalem – Sir Hubert Parry.
A classic British hymn, Jerusalem is a favourite at many prom nights and at England cricket matches
1812 Overture (conclusion) – Tchaikovsky
The most famous piece by the great Russian composer, the song is a common accompaniment to fireworks across the world
Adagio for Strings - Barber
Adagio for Strings is an emotional tune which has often been the cause of leaving "rarely leaving a dry eye" in the house
Greensleeves – Mantovani
A traditional English folk song, Greensleeves is also the standard chime for many ice cream vans in the UK
Nimrod - Elgar
Nimrod is a common song to be played at funerals, and is always played at the Cenotaph in London on Remembrance Day

Modern music for funerals

Today, funerals can be personalised in whatever way you and your family like. The songs and hymns that are played at a funeral don't have to fit any standard, and can be whatever you choose. There's a wide range of popular modern music for funerals, whether it's Wiz Khalifa, Ed Sheeran, Robbie Williams or something very leftfield like The Prodigy, your funeral music choice is completely yours.

Supermarket Flowers - Ed Sheeran
Sheeran's 2017 song about his late grandmother has already become one of the most played songs at a funeral
See you again - Wiz Khalifa
A tribute to the late Paul Walker, Khalifa's 2015 emotional megahit is one of the most streamed songs of all time
Someone Like You - Adele
Adele is known for her solemn, heart wrenching, tearjerkers, and 2011's Someone Like You is no exception
Wake Me Up When September Ends - Green Day
The American rock band's 2005 hit was a symbolic song after Hurricane Katrina and was dedicated to the victims of 9/11
Shallow - Lady Gaga & Bradley Cooper
The power ballad from 2018's film A Star is Born is a song about heartache which ends with an intense climax

Uplifting funeral exit music

Funeral music doesn't always have to be downbeat. For some, there is no better way to say goodbye than doing so with a big smile on your face.

And there are plenty of songs out there that can do that. Here is a selection of the most popular uplifting funeral exit music.

Three Little Birds - Bob Marley and the Wailers
Bob Marley's megahit from 1980 has been an anthem for over 40 years, and will continue to be so for decades to come
Always Look on the Bright Side of Life - Monty Python
Monty Python's cheery upbeat tune from 1979 is a jig that can't help but bring a smile to your face
Don't Worry. Be Happy - Bobby McFerrin
The song will be relevant "as long as humans speak English and play music" one critic said at the time. And he's probably right
My Way - Frank Sinatra
One of the most popular funeral songs of all time, the iconic song is popularly associated with nostalgia and individuality
I've Had The Time of my Life - Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes
A song with huge emotional depth, this 1987 song is half-tearjerker, half-uplifter, and is a perfect funeral music choice

Funeral hymns

For those who prefer religious music, hymns are a traditional choice for funeral services.

Funeral hymns often convey messages of comfort and faith, offering solace to those in mourning. Here are some of the most beloved hymns for a respectful send off.

Amazing Grace
This timeless hymn speaks of redemption, forgiveness, and hope, making it a powerful choice for a funeral
The Lord is My Shepherd
Based on Psalm 23, this hymn expresses trust in God’s guidance and protection. Often chosen for its gentle reassurance, it brings a message of peace, making it a fitting tribute for those of faith, symbolising God’s care in life and beyond
Abide With Me
Known for its moving melody and profound lyrics, this hymn asks for God’s presence in times of hardship and loss. It captures a spirit of resilience and comfort, offering solace by expressing a desire for divine companionship through life’s toughest moments
How Great Thou Art
Celebrating the wonder of creation, this hymn is a powerful reminder of the greatness and mercy of God. Its uplifting tone and majestic lyrics provide a moment of awe and reflection
Jerusalem
This iconic British hymn, based on a poem by William Blake, envisions a hopeful and ideal world. It’s a patriotic and spiritually uplifting choice that reflects strength and purpose

Funeral music for mum

Choosing music to honour a mother can be incredibly personal. Here are some popular choices that reflect the love and memories shared.

Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler
This heartfelt ballad expresses gratitude and admiration for someone who offered unwavering support and love. Its lyrics beautifully capture the essence of a mother’s sacrifices and strength, making it a moving tribute to her role as a guiding presence
Supermarket Flowers - Ed Sheeran
Written in memory of Sheeran’s own grandmother, this song poignantly details the small, loving memories we cherish after losing someone close. Its intimate lyrics convey both loss and gratitude, making it a tender reflection of a mother’s everyday impact
Mama - Il Divo
This powerful song is a direct tribute to mothers, celebrating their unconditional love and dedication. With moving lyrics that speak to her care and sacrifices, it serves as a fitting farewell and expression of a child’s love for their mother
A Mother's Love - Celine Dion
‘A Mother’s Love’ reflects on the enduring, selfless love a mother has for her children. Its touching lyrics capture the warmth, strength, and lifelong devotion of motherhood, making it a deeply emotional choice for paying tribute to her memory
In My Life - The Beatles
Reflecting on cherished memories and special relationships, this song captures the lasting impact of loved ones. Its nostalgic lyrics resonate as a tribute to the irreplaceable moments shared with a mother, celebrating her legacy in a gentle, heartfelt way

Funeral music for dad

For fathers, songs that capture strength, guidance, and love are often popular choices at funerals.

Here are some of the most powerful songs you could consider.

Dance With My Father - Luther Vandross
Written as a tribute to Vandross's late father, this deeply personal song reflects on cherished memories and the longing to share one more moment together. Its poignant lyrics resonate with the bond between a father and child, making it a heartfelt farewell
The Living Years - Mike + The Mechanics
This song explores the importance of understanding, forgiveness, and connection between generations. Its reflective lyrics encourage healing and appreciation for the wisdom a father imparts, making it a fitting tribute to the lessons and love he shared
Hero - Mariah Carey
This uplifting ballad celebrates the strength, guidance, and courage a father offers throughout life. Its message of resilience and heroism reflects a father’s role as a source of inspiration, making it a touching choice to honour his memory
My Way - Frank Sinatra
‘My Way’ has a deeply emotional depth and personal connection, and is one of the most requested songs for funerals. The lyrics resonate for many at this difficult time.
He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother - The Hollies
This timeless song reflects the unwavering bond of support, love, and loyalty between loved ones. Its heartfelt lyrics capture the strength to carry each other through life’s struggles, a tribute to those who provide guidance and companionship unconditionally

Funeral music for grandparents

Honouring a grandparent with music can bring back cherished memories of warmth, wisdom, and love. Here are a few suggestions:

We'll Meet Again - Vera Lynn
This classic song of hope and reunion has long been associated with remembrance and resilience. Its message promises a future meeting, bringing comfort to those who are saying goodbye to a beloved grandparent with the hope of seeing them again
Unforgettable - Nat King Cole
This timeless love song captures the essence of a grandparent’s lasting impact. Its lyrics convey admiration and the deep impression left by someone remarkable, making it a fitting tribute to a grandparent who remains “unforgettable” in the hearts of family
Fields of Gold - Sting
Reflecting on memories of nature and love, this song’s gentle melody and evocative lyrics capture the beauty of simple moments shared. Its peaceful imagery makes it an ideal choice to honour a grandparent who treasured life’s quiet joys
Grandma’s Hands - Bill Withers
This soulful tribute to a grandmother’s loving, guiding hands highlights the nurturing wisdom and warmth often associated with grandparents. With its personal, storytelling lyrics, it’s a heartfelt choice for honouring a grandmother’s legacy
What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
Celebrating life’s beauty, this song embodies a grandparent’s often hopeful, wise perspective on the world. Its uplifting lyrics honour their ability to see the good in life, leaving loved ones with a message of gratitude and inspiration

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What music can I play?

Our crematoriums feature state-of-the-art downloadable music systems, allowing us to play any piece of music you want as long as it's been commercially recorded and released.

How long does it take to plan a funeral?

With Distinct Cremations, it will take approximately 2-4 weeks to arrange the funeral. This includes the completion of the necessary paperwork and the cremation itself. Once the cremation has taken place, the ashes can be scattered in the crematorium garden of remembrance or personally returned by our team within 14 days.

Can you organise the celebration too?

While we can’t arrange the celebration for you we can provide funeral guidance if needed.

What is a family-led funeral?

A family-led funeral is a funeral service led by the attendees rather than a celebrant or officiant. The funeral service can contain readings given by attendees or a eulogy from someone close to the deceased. Mourners can sit and listen to music in honour of the deceased or simply sit together quietly to reflect on their loved one's life.

How long does it take to arrange a funeral?

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Is it OK to plan your own funeral?

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